Do What You Love, And Love What You Do

It’s 5:43 am, and I’m sitting on my turquoise rug on the floor in my bedroom, typing on my computer and praying the click, click, clicking from my keyboard won’t wake up the sleeping 14-month-old baby girl in my bed. I don’t know what’s up with her lately*, but last night she’d wake up screaming, then the second I’d pick her up she’d pass back out. It was a long night that ended with me desperately wanting some sleep, so I brought her back to our bed where she passed out the second her head hit the pillow. I, of course, did not sleep as soundly as the baby. Luckily, my husband brought me a cup of coffee before he left for work.

*I do know what’s up with her: she’s teething, I’m sure. I’m expecting like five teeth to pop through all at once. At least that’s the only thing that will make the last year of hardly any sleep make sense.

Finding a Hobby is Good For the Soul

The morning is my happy time. I love working in silence, and gathering my thoughts before the world wakes up.

During my MOPS meeting last week we talked about hobbies and making time to actually do what you love. People always ask me how I do it all, and I don’t have a magic answer. I almost always say, “I don’t do it all,” and that’s the truth. While I’m sitting here on the floor, there is literally a gigantic pile of laundry that’s almost as tall as my daughter that needs to be put away, and a house that’s messy. But this is my time. This is the time I get to just sit and breathe; this is my hobby.

[Tweet “What’s your hobby right now? Not what you liked doing 10 years ago, but how do you relax now?”]

During the meeting, our leader asked us about our current hobbies. Not our hobbies 10 years ago (before kids for most of us), but what do we do for ourselves today. I thought that was profound, because I’m always thinking of what I used to like to do instead of what I actually do now. She also said that if nothing comes to mind, think about what we’d want our hobby to be when we’re 60 years old, and start doing that thing(s) now! 

Alwyas find time for the things that make you feel happy to be alive.

Honestly, I think I’m doing my hobby now. I like waking up early and writing—that’s my happy and most relaxed time of the day. I’d love to read more, so I need to work on doing that—it’s really self-control; I need to leave the phone in the other room so I don’t have any distractions. I’d love to crochet, but I don’t think I’m in the right season for it yet; I’ve tried it here and there, and while I like it…I’m just not ready for it yet, and that’s okay! I also have my Pampered Chef stuff going on right now, and that’s helping me fulfill my need to be social.

It’s funny, during our meeting we talked about how our hobbies can be relaxing for us. A hobby is something you like to do, so while it may be work, it can also be relaxing. And the cool thing is that it’s different for everyone! One person’s hobby may be sitting and reading a book quietly, while another person can find relaxation in running for miles. I love having time devoted to writing while someone else may enjoy painting.

Finding the hobby that fills your cup

Side note: painting, it turns out, stresses me out BIG TIME. I went to a Truth Be Told party, and while I LOVE the outcome and the socialization that comes from painting with friends, I just worry and fret that I’m doing it all wrong. Painting is not relaxing for me, so I’m definitely not adding that to my list of hobbies as I get older!

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Anyway, my point is: figure out what you love and what makes you happy, and do it. If you’re in a season where you don’t have a single ounce of time for yourself (been there, done that), then find a way to make some time. You know the saying, “When mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy?” It’s true! Your cup needs to be full if you want to even attempt to give to others. Otherwise, you’re just running on empty, and nobody wants to be around that!

[Tweet “In a season where you don’t have an ounce of time for yourself? Find a way to make some time—fill your cup!”]

Okay, your turn: What’s your hobby these days? Not sure? Make a list of all the things you want to do, and then figure out a way to make it happen!

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10 Comments

  1. I have started to chalk paint furniture. I love the ease of the product, how inexpensive it is, and yet, it turns an old, outdated piece into a treasure. The best part is it doesn’t matter what the weather is outside, I can paint indoors.

  2. My hobby is blogging. I don’t follow “the rules” but just write to record my life. BONUS: I already have blog posts that I am turning into a journal to surprise my hubby-to-be with!

    1. Oh, I LOVE that idea! During my first year or two of marriage I wrote a blog post every week for my husband, and for our anniversary I turned those posts into a book for him. We’re still married (I realize the way I wrote that implied that we aren’t, but life just moved forward and now I’m too busy to muster out a post every week for him…gosh, I should go back to doing it, though!). Anyway, if you’re interested, look up “Five for Friday” in my search and see what comes up 🙂

  3. Well, that’s it. I’m officially uplifted ;). This is an excellent post and a great reminder to all us moms that we need to have a little slice of time that’s “me” time. And I’m right there with you girl, painting totally stresses me out too lol. Especially when there are too many options of colors to paint with. But hey, your painting turned out great! Love the verse too. Thanks for sharing!

  4. Oh, you are not alone with painting stressing you out. I actually CRIED on a double date at one of those wine and painting nights… I LOVE my painting now and have it hanging in my office, but holy stress at the time. I wanted it PERFECT, and there just wasn’t enough time.

    My hobbies now are definitely blogging and reading. 🙂

  5. I sew and do other crafts. Sometimes I make things for my kids but I still do the crafting for me. It’s my favorite hobby.

  6. That’s definitely profound. I’m inspired now! I played piano for 15 years, then got to college and couldn’t make time anymore. I still consider it a hobby, though, even though it’s a “used to” now. But I’m inspired to get back to it regularly!

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  7. We had this very same conversation at my MOPS recently!!!! It was so encouraging to be reminded that hobbies are valuable and, even if we can’t get everything in the world done, we should still prioritize our hobbies!

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